The real Africa?

Africa is huge. Fifty-three countries in a giant continent. Hundreds of languages and dialects, and so many tribes within those countries. Iconic images of children, animals, and landscapes, recognizable the world over. Discouraging statistics, endless genocides, and reports of pirates dominate outside perceptions of life in Africa.

So what is “the real Africa”? Is it the mud huts and fly-eyed children? Is it puttering tuk-tuks on narrow streets and bartering vendors selling beaded wares? Is it overcrowded ferry boats, or wildlife safaris? Is it cities or villages? Or is the act of delegating only a portion of Something as the “Real” Something just as ridiculous to say as when McCain-Palin uttered the same gaff regarding America?

People waiting to be let onto the ferry.

After four days of navigating Mombasa, we had kept to the main island part of the city, which is the major center and bulk of Mombasa. We went across the northern bridge just once to see the open-air market (largest in East Africa) near Nyali district, but that still had a very ‘city’ feel to it.

Finally we came to Likoni, the area to the south of the city, across the river, where four out of five of us are now living and working. Our first experience of Likoni quickly showed us a new side of daily life in Africa. The one road is dirt and full of giant puddles, lined with stalls (ie. storefronts and food vendors) made of scrap wood and metal, litter is strewn pretty much everywhere, and goats and cows wander about, munching on the sometimes-burning trash and shrubs interchangeably. This is my neighborhood. To be fair, this main heavy-traffic road through Likoni is much more drastic than the side roads and residential areas just off of it. But the poverty and lack of infrastructure here is immediately and abruptly obvious, and maybe that is what caused one of the other interns to say, with some relish, that this felt more like the real Africa.

This puddle is the road to my house.

When I heard that, I immediately felt odd about it.  What makes this more real?  Perhaps “real” is the wrong word – perhaps “reality” is more apt – all parts of Africa are real, but the reality of the challenges that Kenyans face is simply more clear outside of the city bustle. While plenty of people do live within the city of Mombasa, most people who work in the city commute in, and live in the poorer areas outside the city. And also, the overwhelming majority of Africans live in rural, impoverished areas. Areas like Likoni where the road has become a canal a foot deep, and the girl down the street dies of cholera.  But even in Likoni, one of the poorest areas of Mombasa, I live with an educated family that has done well for itself and enjoys a nice life.

My host-family's house - it's lovely.

It is here where you learn about the library that was built under the ego of one Cabinet member, only to sit bookless now after the election brought someone else into power. It is here where you learn that skinny, lean people don’t receive as much respect as larger, rounder people (because they must not have enough to eat).  It is here where babies cry at the sight of your face, as you are the first white one they have seen.

But then again, it is in the city where you have a lively discussion with the older female owner of your hotel (who owns many properties in the city and is married to a white man) about how she is ready and eager for change in the woman’s role in Africa. “Learn how to cook!” she yells at her (male) manager, only half-chidingly. She says Africa is ready for change, and woman are already making their way there. He stoutly refuses to budge on his view that women are meant to cook and clean, and that Africa cannot change because African humans are fundamentally different from American humans, and should not be the same. I didn’t bait him too much, hopeful with the knowledge that the aging of a single generation can elicit much of this impossible-sounding change.

Like everywhere in the world, the interplay of city and rural life is just a part of life – it’s the tug and war of progressive and conservative views, of import and export, of grow it vs. buy it, of cultural clashes and mixing, that has played a fundamental role in the development of civilization and the furthering of progress throughout human history.  The existence of both together is as Real as it gets.

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74 Responses to The real Africa?

  1. I lived in Uganda for 3 years and I totally feel the same way about the “real” Africa. People always seem to have a mental picture of what Africa looks like but there are so many sides to that great continent. I love Mombasa, it’s a great city. So excited to keep up with your adventures.

  2. Your post meant everything to me today. I volunteered for 6 months in a village in Uganda and I miss it every day. Your post captured some of the things I miss the most about East Africa. Thank you so much for having a remarkable grasp of “the real Africa” .

  3. i’m thrilled that you both found my post and enjoyed it so! huzzah wordpress community :) welcome to my moments

    • zara

      Hi Steph,

      im planning on coming to kenya this summer…..im just wondering if you could email me and tell me more about linkoni?

      thanks

  4. Hey,
    I am actually Ugandan and proudly East African, and reading this post from my my home in Uganda puts a smile on my face because so many times the “real Africa” is some misconception of only one side to Africa.
    I’m glad even just one person’s view will change so many others, I mean you’ve been freshly pressed, imagine how many people will read this. Hope your having a lovely time in Mombasa.

  5. islandmomma

    Firstly, congratulations on what you are doing. It is impressive, and, as you already know, much-needed. Stange-to-me-to-say, I haven’t actually visited Africa, unless you count Morrocco, (and I don’t), but I feel as if I have, because I have been working with African immigrants here in Spain for four years now. I’ve learned a lot from them, and one thing is, not to generalize. Very, very wise of you to have picked up on this so soon, the experience will not be lost on you, and you will learn much and be able to help so much more for having this flexible thinking.

    I wish you the very best of luck, a rich and rewarding experience, and I am sure the people with whom you will be working are lucky to have you working on their project. Also congrats on being Freshly Pressed, which is how I came across your blog.

  6. Love this post. When people talk about “Africa,” they are usually talking about sub-Saharan Africa. Although I’ve never been there, I have friends who have, and their experiences have been as diverse as the people who populate the land.

  7. Thank you so much for sharing this. I live in Texas and I take for granted such basic things as paved roads. I tend to be too comfortable and complain about a pot hole in Dallas.
    What a wake up call it is to see how other parts of the world live.

  8. There is always more to a country than what is stereotyped. Great Read!
    -Noor
    http://noor724.wordpress.com/ :)

  9. Wow, I must say I am very jealous, I want to go to Africa one day. A friend of mine was just there for 7 months to volunteer!

    Thanks for sharing your experience, it sounds very ‘eye-opening.’ What actually caught my attention the most though was when you said they respect people who are rounder, bigger etc. That’s such a huge cultural difference compared to North America where the skinner you are, the better. It’s so strange.

  10. Wow, now this post really brings you back to reality, eh? Reality meaning the reality that not all life everywhere is rosy-posy. I very much enjoyed the first-person experience of what it’s like to live in Africa (as an outsider?). It’s one of the continents that I am the least familiar with, at this point, but I expect that I will be visiting there many times in the next 15-25 years. Why exactly will I be there, I am not sure, but I just have a feeling I will be, so being able to ‘feel into the words’ of your experience is helpful. Thank you.

    With Love and Gratitude,

    The Intentional Sage

  11. Thank you for sharing your experiences in Africa. :) I enjoyed reading about it.

    Cheers, Niconica
    http://niconica.wordpress.com

  12. Very nice post. People often forget that Africa is not a tiny country on the other side of the world; it is a huge continent full of different people and ideas.

    Congratulations on being ‘Freshly Pressed’
    ~Sara
    http://tediouslife.wordpress.com/

  13. I loathe that term, “the real Africa” as an college student in the United States having exprienced both worlds, I still don’t get what it is that is so deplorable about Africa, or the small part I have experienced. Even in their poverty I have seen people that are very happy and satisfied. Happiness does not depend on the Range Rover in the parking lot – yes, we all know that, but not many people realize how much this ideology affects us.
    I saw the puddle in the middle of the road and felt nostalgia. I don’t know how many times I have walked in some obscure NY street and been pulled out of my busy-bodiness by the familiar smell of piss.
    Ok, now I’m preaching, in sum, what counts is the experience attached to the situation, the paved road would be a nightmare if u saw bomb victims sprawled on it and the puddle is heaven if its associated with happy childhood times.
    Boy-oh-boy, now I’m just terribly homesick. Thanx for the pictures.

  14. I am from Nigeria, born and raised.. Lived there the first seveteen years of my life, it is home! Africa is not as potrayed, there are some truths to it considering some other third-world countries but for the most part, it’s a great place to live… I love Africa!!! Keep exploring!!!

    ps. am a new blogger, could u visit my site and tell me what u think?

  15. I just wanted to say thanks for your reflections. Yours is the first post about Africa highlighted on Freshly Pressed in the last 20 days that did not take a colonial gaze to the content & posit white experience as “the experience” (& yes, I do have my grad students doing a project on this so my #s are statistically sound).

  16. AH

    This is interesting. I’m currently in Kenya and blogging on Mombasa as well on http://ahechoes.wordpress.com/category/the-kenya-diaries/

  17. Heyy..I love Kenya..from Nairobi to Mombasa..the plains and mountains..beaches..all of it’s corruption and loveliness and fun and sorrow..it’s the same package that I have found in most places in the world..as complicated as every individual that I’ve ever met on this planet…it can never be summed up in one glimpse from one man’s eyeview..impossible…
    Always glad to find people who know how beautifully complicated the Continent of Africa is..

  18. A very interesting read. A compendium of such entries would make a fascinating read, cast a different view of Africa than what’s vomited up by the US (and other) media as a matter of course.

    It’s always good to read something by someone actually living there.

  19. Great post. Looking forward to more.
    It has it’s negative sides but Mombasa’s a wonderful place. I should know; it’s my hometown. :)

  20. The house looks lovely indeed.. Please think of me there around, once.. I have loved the green hedge. :)

  21. Great post! Although I have not been to Africa yet, I can relate to the feelings you expressed in your post. I’ve gone to Hong Kong several times and China once. Being in another country, you come to appreciate your own life and (hopefully) a better appreciation for those who live in a different place. In particular, I recall after a very short two weeks in China; taking the ride to the airport I felt sad. I didn’t want to leave!

    I certainly recommend everyone to take advantage of the opportunity to visit other countries. Your likely to gain appreciation for others by learning how life is outside of the U.S.

    Thanks! LB

  22. Beautifully written. I spent half a year in Kenya between high school and college and it changed…everything.

    The “Real” Africa is so many things that we can hardly begin to understand with our limited experience of culture that rotates on an axis of deep-rooted traditions and philosophies that many do not dare to question. It is because of this that we, the aliens, must humble ourselves and try with all our might, despite our knowledge and opinion of ‘what works,’ to learn a thing or two.

    In many ways, we need Africa more than Africa needs us.

  23. So interesting to read from a point of view of a foreigner observing Africa and its culture. I find Africa so facinating, and somewhat scary, if that makes sense. So much of what filters through to us here in the west is just bad news on the evening news…

  24. Very nice blog.. i look fwd to many more.
    sm

  25. I live in nairobi, kenya. But I’m in mombasa now.
    I love this post!!
    Its like those people who live in nyali, or mtwapa have sold out. They’ve thrown away the heritage of being able to shout across the street to your second cousin or something.
    They’re basically trying to get rid of the “real africa” and make a “fake africa” where there is no room for those who live in old town.

  26. I lived in Malawi for 3 years, so I totally feel you

  27. I loved this post. I’ve never been to Africa, but I love reading about first hand experiences in different countries. The anecdote about women’s roles in Africa was illuminating!

    Bravo!

    MISS T

  28. elmer

    The Africa I know is what I only see in the silver screen, and its ugly. “God has left Africa a long time ago” (Blood Diamond).

    • elmer, there is always more than one view. I hope you will follow my experiences here and see another side – despite the muddy puddles, life here is quite beautiful

  29. I’ve never been to Africa. I haven’t seen more than a handful of pictures. Now that I’ve read your post, I know that what I have read isn’t nearly enough.

  30. Yes,it’s lovely, i love africa.

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  31. A very informative post. Thank you for sharing your insight.

    I live in the Ozarks, a very specific area in Missouri and Arkansas. So, I understand what you are saying.

    Sarah
    moonmooring.wordpress.com

  32. I am Kenyan and I live in Nairobi and I appreciate the candor.

  33. i was born in Mombasa and sometimes i really find it wierd when i hear the mental pictures a majority of the western world has of Kenya and many other countries. sure we have our derilict areas but which country doesnt? we have our own pieces of heaven in Kenya. Nice blog

  34. I do love to see the picture of your family’s house ^^

  35. I lived in Lusaka, Zambia for three years, and I agree 100%. Great post ♥

  36. aar

    hallo
    nice picture

  37. this is life buddy….we can’t be happy in a room full of money, but what matters is internal satisfaction :)
    i still miss my days away from home :)

  38. Nice read. I really enjoyed this post. Also awesome pictures!

  39. Experiencing the true side of the country is the beauty of traveling to these places, such as Africa. Getting a feel of the way they live or their every day life. Great post. http://www.offtrackbackpacking.com

  40. Taz

    Hi! This is a cool blog. Dropping by via a link from the ‘freshly pressed blogs’ featured by WordPress. It’s really interesting to read about another’s experiences in your own country. Impressed at how you already seem to be so comfortable with the Kiswahili language. Hongera!

    Taz
    Nairobi

  41. charozel

    thats where i come from and am glad…..that someone out there….saw the need…to appreciate….mother land….am honored…!

  42. really enjoyed reading the post, would love to go there some day

  43. Awesome blog. I am a Kenyan living in South Africa and as as modern as the city of Johannesburg is, I always find myself missing the little pleasures of Nairobi and Mombasa.

  44. AFRICA! I just want to immerse myself in everything the continent has to offer. I want to climb Mt. Kilimanjaro, sleep in the safari tents with giraffes grazing nearby, help build self-sustaining communities, lay on the beaches of the Ivory Coast, and party in Cape Town.

  45. We have also lived in Africa for 2 years, and traveled the continent pretty extensively. Kenya and Uganda have a hard road, but what we found amazing is the spirit of the people. What a proud and beautiful people many Africans are.

    This is the treasure the rest of the world has overlooked. What is depressing is their readiness to murder each other, tribal customs are nigh impossible to change.

  46. Great post. Although I have only been to Morocco, which is much different than East Africa, I hope that I can one day experience East Africa. Thanks for posting!

  47. bella

    I ended up here pretty randomly but just have to say, great writing and thinking! very insightful and interesting post

  48. I am planning to travel to Africa and will keep track of your blog for more info!

    You have a very clear and penetrating writing voice!

    Adam

  49. A wonderful post. I too, went to Uganda recently and plan to go back in December. Although it’s not my home, I felt (and have heard many people say) that the first time they get to Africa it feels as if they are finally home.

    Its so difficult to try and describe the things you see and feel in places like Kenya, Uganda, Rwaanda… because they are so different from the “Real America.” I tell my friends that, although I have the words to describe it to you, there is no way to make you feel it; and that makes all the difference between an imagination and an experience. You’ve done a wonderful job and I look forward to reading more as your time in Kenya goes on.

  50. Oldclimber

    What did you really see ? You dismiss the Africa that most of us see in the media. Perhaps you want us to see what you do. McCain/Palin as not having any grip on reality, women on verge of rebuilding Africa, crushing poverty as having no effect on your “impossible-sounding change” ? I submit that what you are seeing, and dismissing as irrelevant, is the clash of tribal based cultures, combined with modern vehicles for magnifying that friction, caused by a fundamental and primitive mode of thought and behavior. It is a “feel and do now” attitude, admirable and likable in an environment of 40 or so “grass huts” set in as late as an early 1900′s Africa. But take that same attitude, arm it with AK47′s and a modern technology enabled, country-wide strong man backed by his tribal allies, and it becomes an infection on the face of humanity. It spills over onto neighbors. It steals resources much needed for basic necessities. It saps constructive spirit and imagination. It brings much of the despair that “we” see in our media. Most of all it promulgates itself. Your almost casual dismissal of “our” Africa tells me you are viewing the world through rosy glasses, and I believe “your” Africa is both as you dismiss and as you “see”. Reality is wider than the selectively perceived.

    • I’m not exactly sure what you’re trying to say here – that “your” violence-wrapped media package of Africa is more truthful than the experience of everyday people living and working in the community here? The violence is there, it’s real too – My aim in writing this post was simply to discuss how much more there is to life in Africa *besides* that.

      Mombasa-born krspeace said it well in their comment: “sure we have our derilict areas but which country doesnt? we have our own pieces of heaven in Kenya.”

      I beseech you to take your own concluding remark to heart, and widen your own reality to include other views. Lumping Africa into the category of “infection on the face of humanity” is EXACTLY the Western side effect I’m hoping to squelch.

  51. Interesting post! I’ve never been to Africa and likely won’t put it on my must visit list. I would like to comment on social change though. As painful as it is, enormous change can be made in very little time. I remember being allowed to run around my neighbourhood unfettered, men cat calling down the streets and never seeing my father cook or clean. It’s only been 25 years but all of that has changed. And not only in North America either – Europe has changed too. (A Swiss lady I know said that when she was a mom the ladies would leave their strollers, kids still in them, outside the store, shop around and pick them back up when done.) Africa can change if it wants to. There’s no such thing as fundamentally different people.

  52. Great post! It’s always good to read such insight from those who encounter the “real” worlds out there.

  53. nycodell

    I truly enjoyed this, as I am currently living in Liberia (West Africa) and am having the same musings myself. As I marvel at the “realities” that exist in Africa, I also marvel at how much alike we are- how much we care about the same things and worry about the future. Incredibly… we are all just human, no matter what opportunities were available to us as we were growing up…
    Thank you for your well-written post!

  54. I’ve never been to Africa, but I appreciate your recognition that no part of a country (or Continent) can be more “real” than any other. The problem is that we tend to associate what we see in the media as “real,” when in reality it is only a part of the truth.

  55. I liked your post, I have recently taken a sudden interest in Africa so of course, I had to read yours too. I have never been to Africa so the reality of it is completely up to my imagination but I can only fathom what it must be like. Thank you for your insight! =)

  56. I love Mombasa, it’s a great city

  57. Saw this post on the WP page— I like your posts and I love what you do. I do human rights work and I have been thinking about volunteering. Your experiences sound really interesting… will be looking around your site. =D

  58. Great post!

    I am from the Philippines. And the poor – face the same predicament as the poor people in Africa, and in other third world countries.

    Every picture you showed reminds me of home. I have lived it.

    The reality of life is harsh… only the people who know how to “play the game” come out ahead.

    It seems that your host family has figured it out…

    Thanks for sharing your experience.

  59. Hey Mombasa Moments … I love kenya . but when im there im mostly in nairobi .. i like mombasa too ! Nice blog

  60. I’ve not been to that part of Africa, but I have been to Egypt, which is a completely different Africa. It was eye-opening to see such poverty (that was my first experience). I think what you say stands true for many countries around the world…there’s always two ‘versions’…the real and the reality …that different nationalities of humans are not equal to others (only in the minds of some).

    I now live in a very touristy part of Mexico but I live in the ‘reality’ part of my new city where poverty and corruption are a way of ‘real’ life. Cultural clashes hit hard here and often the ‘mixing’ is like oil and water.

  61. nice to see Africa, so colorful, from South Africa to Egypt totally different. This is the continent where all human being began their evolution.

  62. We’ve visited Kenya twice and Tanzania once, as tourists, and witnessed the stress between tribal values and western values (and eastern), and the negative impact on the natural environment and African wildlife. The interaction is largely irreversible, and therefore reconciliation between these disparate value systems is essential, and will progress in starts and stops for centuries to come. Those, like yourself, who are striving for a peaceful process of reconciliation, deserve all of our support and admiration. Keep up the good work, and I hope your experience will net out as a very positive one.

  63. Excellent post! That really captures Africa well, and I’m saying that as an African!

    The media often only portrays the ‘real’ Africa – and the poverty and suffering. But then there is the other Africa – the place of beauty and joy.

    I live in Johannesburg, South Africa. I grew up in rural South Africa. It’s certainly nothing like what you’ve described, but it is still Africa. And across the border is Lesotho, with the children begging for streets, and the streets mud and the huts you refer to. But there is something special about that too. I’m always amazed how those who are less privileged make the most of their circumstances.

    All the best on your adventures!

    http://leeschmidt.wordpress.com/

  64. thank you all for reading! I’m a bit overwhelmed by the response from Freshly Pressed readers, and wish I had time to respond to you all – but welcome, and I’m so glad you enjoyed it. I look forward to sharing my experiences with so many more of you now!

  65. Nice article. So, you now have a feel of Africa. I have been lots of place in Africa and lived in Uganda, Rwanda, Southern Sudan and now I am in Kenya. Africa is a paradox and not a bed of roses.

  66. charozel

    ” For we who now behold these present days, have eyes to wonder but lack tongues to praise” so observed Shakespeare…..this is a great blog and am honored to be an African, from Kenya-Mombasa born and bred it is time people start to appreciate…the “Real -Surreal Africa”.
    this post proves to the rest of the mis-informed…individuals that…behind the veil of genocides, poverty, corruption and…..piracy..lays a beautiful face..of the true spirit of love, unity, purpose and moral development……what a way..to prove the cynics wrong…..! thanks a lot…keep on…with that spirit.

  67. Mike Willson

    Yes, this is really good post…real Africa should be more appreciated from all the aspects. Besides beautiful nature and cultural diversities, there is a powerfull economic growt in some of the coutries, especially in East African region. East African Community is making great progress and soon it will be equal to much powerful unions around the world. I have learned so much about it when stumbled on the portal which covers a large share of East African business and tourism informations, and recommend to all who are interested to visit http://in2eastafrica.net/?cat=31

    Mike Willson

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